Pyaar Se Baat Karein: Apni baat ko pyaar aur izzat ke saath bolna bahut zaroori hai. Jab aap apni baat pyar se rakhte hain, to samne wala aapki baat ko dhyaan se sunta hai. Jab aap vinamr aur shant rehte hain, tab aapki baat aur bhi prabhavi hoti hai. Vinamrata se baat karna sirf aapko hi nahi, balki doosron ko bhi suvidha aur sukhad anubhav deta hai. Yeh ek aisa gun hai jo har vyakti ko apnana chahiye.
Saaf Bolein: Apne vicharon ko seedha aur saaf rakhein. Jab aap apni baat ko seedhe aur spasht shabdon mein rakhte hain, tab doosre vyakti ke liye usse samajhna asaan hota hai. Gol-mol ya sanket mein baat karne se bachna chahiye. Isse confusion hota hai aur aapki baat ka asal matlab kho jata hai. Saaf aur spasht bolne se aap apni baat ko behtar tareeke se vyakt kar sakte hain.
Uchit Samay Chunein: Har baat ke liye ek sahi samay hota hai, usi waqt apni baat rakhne ki koshish karein. Jab aapko lagta hai ki samay sahi hai aur doosra vyakti sunne ke liye tayar hai, tabhi apni baat rakhni chahiye. Agar samay uchit nahi hai, to aapki baat ka prabhav kam ho sakta hai aur doosra vyakti usse dhyaan se nahi sunega. Sahi samay ka intezaar karke hi apni baat ko rakhne se aapki baat aur bhi prabhavi ho jati hai.
Tathy Aur Misal Dein: Apni baat ko samjhane ke liye udaharan aur tathy ka prayog karein. Jab aap apni baat ko tathy aur udaharan ke saath rakhte hain, tab doosra vyakti aapki baat ko behtar tareeke se samajh sakta hai. Misal aur tathy se aap apni baat ko majbooti de sakte hain. Yeh doosre vyakti ko aapki baat par vishwas karne mein madad karta hai. Tathy aur udaharan ke bina baat kabhi kabhi adhuri lagti hai.
Sunna Bhi Seekhein: Sirf bolna hi nahi, doosre vyakti ki baat ko bhi dhyaan se sunen. Sunna ek bahut hi mahatvapurn gun hai. Jab aap doosre vyakti ki baat ko dhyaan se sunte hain, tab aap unki bhavnaon aur vicharon ko achhe se samajh sakte hain. Yeh aapko behtar tareeke se respond karne mein madad karta hai. Sirf bolna hi nahi, sunna bhi sikhna chahiye. Yeh aapke sambandhon ko aur bhi majboot banata hai.
Sawal Poochhein: Agar kuch samajh nahi aata hai, to prashn zaroor karein. Jab aapko lagta hai ki kuch samajh mein nahi aa raha hai, to bina sharmaye sawal poochhein. Prashn poochhne se aapki confusion door hoti hai aur aapko sahi jankari milti hai. Yeh aapki samajh ko aur bhi gehra banata hai. Prashn poochhne se aap apne vichar aur bhi spasht kar sakte hain.
Shabdon Ka Dhyan Rakhein: Aise shabdon ka chayan karein jo doosron ko achhe lagein aur unhe bura na lage. Shabdon ka sahi chayan bahut zaroori hai. Aapke shabd aapki soch aur vyaktitv ka pradarshan karte hain. Jab aap aise shabdon ka prayog karte hain jo samne wale ko achhe lagte hain, tab aapke sambandh aur bhi majboot hote hain. Apmanjanak ya kathor shabdon se bachna chahiye. Madhur aur vinamr shabdon ka prayog karna chahiye.
Pyaar Se Baat Karein: Apni baat ko pyaar aur izzat ke saath bolna bahut zaroori hai. Jab aap apni baat pyar se rakhte hain, to samne wala aapki baat ko dhyaan se sunta hai. Jab aap vinamr aur shant rehte hain, tab aapki baat aur bhi prabhavi hoti hai. Vinamrata se baat karna sirf aapko hi nahi, balki doosron ko bhi suvidha aur sukhad anubhav deta hai. Yeh ek aisa gun hai jo har vyakti ko apnana chahiye.
Sunna Bhi Seekhein: Sirf bolna hi nahi, doosre vyakti ki baat ko bhi dhyaan se sunen. Sunna ek bahut hi mahatvapurn gun hai. Jab aap doosre vyakti ki baat ko dhyaan se sunte hain, tab aap unki bhavnaon aur vicharon ko achhe se samajh sakte hain. Yeh aapko behtar tareeke se respond karne mein madad karta hai. Sirf bolna hi nahi, sunna bhi sikhna chahiye. Yeh aapke sambandhon ko aur bhi majboot banata hai.